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Amity Pierce Buxton PhD

Founder, Straight Spouse Network
Contact at:
Office: 510-595-1005
E-mail: founder@straightspouse.org
Language: English, some French


Expertise:

  • Same-sex couples
  • Societal, religious and/or cultural factors that influence a LGB person to enter a heterosexual marriage
  • Heterosexual spouses of LGBT persons
  • Lesbian and gay parenting and child development (especially children born into mixed-orientation marriages)
  • “Coming out” issues
  • “Conversion therapies” and claims by the “ex-gay movement”
  • Transgender issues (especially spouses in trans/non-trans marriages)
  • LGBT healthcare issues other than HIV
  • LGBT issues and the workplace
  • LGBT people of color
  • Religion and LGBT people

Additional Information:

Dr. Buxton has been a researcher, author, and educator who has counseled heterosexual and gay, lesbian, and bisexual spouses in mixed-orientation marriages since 1986. She founded the Straight Spouse Network in 1991. Her research interests include therapy needs for straight spouses in mixed-orientation marriages, coping strategies and stages of couples in post-disclosure, mixed-orientation marriages, and the impact on children of one parent's “coming out"  in a heterosexual marriage  Her work has involved spouses in mixed-orientation marriages in nations and cultures across the globe, including New Zealand, Australia, Israel, Mexico, China, India, Germany and France, among others.


Selected Publications:

(2007) “Counseling Heterosexual Spouses of Bisexual or Transgender Partners, in Becoming Visible: Counseling Bisexuals Across the Lifespan, Beth Firestein, ed., pp. 635-665. New York: Columbia University Press.
 
(2006) “When a Spouse Comes Out: Impact on the Heterosexual Spouse,” in Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity, The Journal of Treatment and Prevention, Special Issue: Sexual Addiction and the Family, M. Deborah Corley, ed., Vol. 13:2-3, pp. 317-332.

(2006) Counseling Heterosexual Spouses and Bisexual/Heterosexual Couples: An Affirmative approach, in Affirmative Psychotherapy with Bisexual Women and Bisexual Men, Ronald C. Fox ed.  New York: Harrington Park Press.

(2006) Healing an Invisible Minority:  How the Straight Spouse Network Has Become the Prime Source of Support for Those in Mixed-Orientation Marriages,” in Interventions with Families of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender People: From the Inside Out, Jerry J Bigner and Andrew R. Gottlieb, eds., pp, 49-69.

(2005). A Family Matter: When a Spouse Comes Out as Gay, Lesbian, or Bisexual. Journal of GLBT Family Studies, 1(2), 49-70.

(2004b) Paths and Pitfalls: Heterosexual Spouses After Their Spouses Come Out.  Journal of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists.

(2004a) “Works in Progress: How Bisexual Wives and Their Heterosexual Husbands Maintain Their Marriages after Disclosure” In Current Research in Bisexuality, Ronald C. Fox, ed., pp. 57-82. New York:  Hayworth, Press.

(2003) Foreword, Sons Talk About Their Gay Fathers, Andrew R. Gottlieb, auth. New York: Hayworth Press.

(2001) “Writing Our Own Script: How Bisexual Men and Their Heterosexual Wives Maintain Their Marriages After Disclosure,” in Facts and Fictions: Experiencing Male Bisexuality, Brett Beemyn and Erich Steinman, eds., pp. 157-189. New York: Haworth Press.                     

(2001) Foreword, My Husband Is Gay, Carol Grever, auth. Crossing Press.